For the longest time, I thought strength meant forcing myself out of my comfort zone, showing my face, going live, podcasting… even though I’m not the best speaker. But the truth is, for introverts, strength often looks very different from our extroverted friends.
I used to post on Instagram almost daily for over a year, and somewhere along the way, I realized I had fallen in love with writing captions. I was consistent, disciplined, and building momentum. But then life happened. Something in my personal world drained a lot of my emotional and mental energy, and suddenly everything I was doing behind the scenes to build my caption system became too overwhelming.
I knew I needed a change… something less stressful, more laid back. That’s when it hit me: “I LOVE writing. Why not start a blog?!”
And that’s when I realized: sometimes the biggest strength isn’t about being louder or more visible. It’s about creating something slow-burning and sustainable, even if I’m not constantly showing up on video. My words can still do the heavy lifting. I’m not making myself invisible… I’m making myself more visible, because I’m choosing to step into the power I already possess with my words.
Looking Back at My Instagram Era
When I started my Instagram, I was posting 3x a day very consistently, and when I wasn’t, I was at least posting daily with one day off a week. Looking back, I’m honestly not sure how I pulled it off while juggling five kids, but somehow I did.
At one point, I was waking up before 5am just to keep up… a rhythm that worked for a while, until it didn’t. Over time, I started questioning if this was really what I wanted long-term.
And I stepped back right before I planned to launch my Caption Conversion System. For a while, I felt disappointed in myself for pulling away, but now I can see it differently: I’ll revisit it when the time is right, and it’ll be stronger because of the clarity I’ve gained. Right now, what writing and blogging give me feels more aligned in the long run.
My Pull Back to Writing
Writing has always been a common theme in my life. I’ve written blogs before (even back in high school), and I’ve tested plenty of other creative outlets… YouTube, Instagram, Etsy, POD. But writing is the thing I keep circling back to.
I love writing poems, songs, and even stories. Maybe one day I’ll finally finish a book and publish it. For now, this blog is how I’m reconnecting with that love.
Blogging feels like home to me. Cozy. Relaxing. Almost like writing a diary entry… just releasing my thoughts into the world. It feels completely different than Instagram, where posts burn out quickly, and the pressure of chasing views or likes never really ends.
Even though I know not to obsess over views or likes on IG, the reality is it never felt like the best bang for my buck. Blogging does.
Lessons From Pushing Myself Too Fast
As I mentioned earlier, I tried podcasting, going live, showing up more visibly, and I don’t regret it. Those things gave me confidence I didn’t have before. But they weren’t sustainable for me. I thought I had to do it all to have it all, and that mindset left me little room for the things I genuinely loved.
People will tell you to sacrifice the things you enjoy, but here’s what I’ve learned: it’s not about cutting everything out, it’s about finding balance. Trimming back enough to make space for what actually matters.
The real lesson? Jumping into everything too quickly isn’t always the answer. Starting with what feels natural, where your true strength lies, is what creates real momentum.
Why I am Choosing Slow & Sustainable Now
I’ve noticed a pattern: “slow burn” success is usually more sustainable. Just like slow-burn relationships tend to last longer, slow-burn platforms help build businesses with staying power.
Pinterest is a perfect example. It’s a search engine that rewards consistency, but it takes time to gain traction… usually around 3-4 months. That’s why I call it a “slow burn” platform.
YouTube is another. Videos can rank and be searchable for years, creating long-lasting visibility. Both platforms give me more bang for my buck compared to constantly chasing fast-moving feeds.
And for me as an introvert, this matters. Blogging, Pinterest, and YouTube let me be laid back, cozy, and still build something powerful without the constant pressure to perform. Sustainable growth isn’t about going viral overnight, it’s about creating something that lasts without burning yourself out.
Looking Ahead to My Future
In the future, once I’ve built a good rhythm with my blog, Pinterest, and YouTube, I’ll likely return to Instagram and officially launch my Caption Conversion System. Until then, I’m focused on building a strong, aligned foundation. (If you want to check it out or join the waitlist for when it does launch, you can do that here.)
Remember: strength is about aligning with what feeds your soul, not forcing what drains you. If you’re introverted like me, your path to success doesn’t have to look like everyone else’s.
Closing Thoughts: Redefining Strength
Sometimes the bravest thing isn’t pushing harder… it’s pivoting toward what actually fits.
I’d love to hear what you consider your strength as an introvert. Share it in the comments so we can remind each other that introvert strength is real strength.
And if you’ve ever felt like social media wasn’t your forever home, stick around. I’ll be sharing more about blogging, Pinterest, and building a business that feels good to you… while still taking care of yourself too.
Confidently Chaotic 
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