I’m Bella, the founder of Confidently Chaotic; a digital home for women who are tired of overcomplicating confidence and want systems that bring peace instead of pressure.
I’m a mom of five boys, a former chronic overthinker, and a woman who learned the hard way that simplicity isn’t laziness… it’s emotional intelligence.
My work helps women feel seen, heard, and worthy without turning their lives into performance art. I create tools and words that give your mind the same thing a clean countertop gives your home: room to breathe.
My approach has quietly resonated with thousands of women online who are building confidence without oversharing, using light, flexible systems to organize their lives, and protecting their peace like it’s part of their income.
What Makes My Work Different
I don’t sell “girl boss” hype or glossy routines that crumble the moment real life shows up.
Everything I create is built around calm, clarity, and confidence that’s quiet; not performative.
Here’s what I believe:
- Confidence is peace, not perfection. You don’t need to perform to prove your worth.
- Simplicity is strength. Light systems work better than rigid plans when life gets heavy.
- Boundaries are love in full sentences. A calm “No” protects everything sacred in your space.
- Privacy is power. You can show up online without turning your life into a reality show.
- Tiny proof beats loud pep talks. You build trust in yourself one small win at a time.
These aren’t just mantras… they’re simple frameworks I live by. Every piece of content I create, every product I design, is made to help women build sustainable confidence… the kind that doesn’t vanish when you log off.
Why I’m Here
Because I spent years chasing peace through productivity.
Because I tried to prove my worth by how much I could share, organize, and endure.
Because I learned that being seen doesn’t have to mean being exposed.
Now, I write, design, and build systems that help women declutter their minds, protect their privacy, and reconnect with who they are when no one’s watching.
Where to Start
If you’re new here, start with The Chaos Cure; my simple visual system for bringing calm back to your daily routines. It’s where confidence meets clarity.
You can also read my blog, where I write about confidence, simplicity, and creative freedom or join my Substack for quiet reflections and new systems and ideas that make life feel lighter.
And if you just need a small first step?
Try Take Out the Invisible Trash; my $5 digital brain dump kit designed to clear your head in minutes without cluttering your desk.
A Final Thought
I’m not here to teach you how to do more.
I’m here to help you feel human while you build.
Because confidence can live in chaos; simplicity just helps it breathe.
Confidently Chaotic 