Fewer tabs. Less noise. More you.
Imagine this:
It’s quiet for a moment. Your coffee’s gone lukewarm, your brain’s already scrolling through the day’s “don’t forget to do this and that,” and you can feel that invisible weight behind your eyes.
That’s where my work begins.
I’m Bella, the creator of Confidently Chaotic… a home for women who crave peace that actually lasts.
Not the kind that comes from another productivity app or a color-coded calendar.
The kind that lives in your body.
The kind that doesn’t vanish the moment life gets loud.
I’m a mom of five boys, a former chronic overthinker who built her calm the slow way… with notebooks, wipe boards, and light systems that hold me when the day feels heavy.
This space isn’t about hustling harder.
It’s about making room to breathe.
Step One: Take Out the Invisible Trash
Your $5 digital brain dump kit
You don’t need another planner. You need a pause.
Take Out the Invisible Trash is my daily brain dump system; a simple guided page that turns chaos into clarity in under ten minutes.
Here’s how it works:
You sit down with 3 blank pages.
You write every half-thought, every mental tab, every little, seemingly stupid thought that suddenly pops into your head that’s been humming on autopilot in the background.
You don’t stop to edit.
You don’t make it pretty.
You just let it spill.
And by the end of the last page, something shifts…
your shoulders drop, your breathing slows, and for the first time all day, your brain isn’t holding everything hostage.
It’s not journaling.
It’s mental housekeeping.
And it’s the fastest way I know to make space for peace.
Step Two: The Chaos Cure (Waitlist)
Bring the calm off the page and into your week.
Once your mind feels lighter, The Chaos Cure helps you translate that calm into motion.
It’s a set of four reusable weekly charts; skincare, meals, movement, and home resets; each designed to give your days rhythm without rigidity.
You fill them in your way.
Wipe clean.
Repeat weekly.
No pressure. No perfect handwriting required.
It’s the tactile version of an exhale… structure that supports you, not suffocates you.
My Promises
Privacy first. You can be online without being exposed.
Zero mom-shame. You’re allowed to be both tired and proud.
Practical over perfect. We stop at “good enough,” then go live.
Try This Before You Go
You don’t need a full system to start feeling lighter.
Just try this:
- Write one permission line you need to hear and tape it to your mirror.
- Make one decision early; tonight’s dinner, tomorrow’s outfit, whatever’s nagging you.
- Do one thing that takes under a minute.
Tiny proof creates quiet confidence.
Less to manage = more you to enjoy.
Confidence can live in chaos.
Simplicity just helps it breathe.
Confidently Chaotic 